Help.....going to have to move to south carolina ( aka hicksville)..i dress goth..im so going to get shot?

shot or killed. bi rednecks.im in this screwed up small hick town and and i dress goth ( im a boy) and so i always got crap and stuff and im finally going to be able to move but the house my parents are looking at is 1 state over ( south carolina) which is no diffrent then north carolina........its like its twin brother and the house is in a small hick church filled town as well its call conway ( look it up,conway SC) and in another roual area even though my mom said she would try to find us a bigger open minded city ( personly i prefew out of the south because the culture is all about god so they think if your not like them your evil which is stupid) .......i just dont know what to do anymore she even thinks conway is big.....they are defintley the southern type of people...evreythings GIGANTIC to them because their hometown takes like 5 freaking seconds to walk trough............ any advice? should i talk to her about this or what? because i know shes trying to help and cares its just my dad who's all redneck and picks on how i dress and stuff and never really suported me...im not dealing with the south im 17 so i guess i will have to hurry up and work on getting a job because im not going to deal with any more southern people dont say anything else or im bringing the question down im not in the mood. i never really gotten the normal life in places thats not in backwoods southern hick towns...........i never realy did and it breaks my heart to be honest.